I (Laura) suspect many of us have never thought about being socially intimate with our spouses. In fact, in our survey we frequently received this answer “I’m not sure what you mean by Social Intimacy.”

We begin dating and we enjoy this person’s companionship. We have common interests. We are friends. Then somewhere along the line we fall in love. For some it happens quickly, for others over time, but we begin to discover that we’ve become more than friends. We become lovers. For some reason when this happens, very often, we cease being friends.

Here is my question for you today, “what keeps you from dating your spouse?”