Recently on The 2018 Marriage Cruise, we were directed by Dr. Gary Chapman, to look at each other eyeball to eyeball and tell the other what we loved about them. Do you know how hard that is to do? It shouldn’t be but it is. Jay and I immediately started laughing at each other because that is what we do – when we are uncomfortable we laugh. We didn’t have a difficult time answering the directive, we had a hard time looking eyeball to eyeball!

When was the last time you and your spouse looked at each other eyeball to eyeball? When was the last time you told your spouse what you love about them?

In our world of chaotic schedules, time robbing devices, and non-face to face communication, it is of utmost importance that we take time to verbally eyeball to eyeball tell our spouse what it is that we love about him or her. So go ahead, sit down and look at each other and lavish the love!

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